Feeling Big, Feeling Small: The Human Yearning for Significance and Wonder

Why do we sometimes feel powerful, expansive, and driven-only to feel small, humbled, or overwhelmed moments later?This book proposes that much of human experience is shaped by a fundamental psychological rhythm between two states the authors call Bigness and Smallness. Blending psychology with insights from biology, development, culture, religion, history, and mental health, the book introduces a theory of Dynamic Magnitude-the idea that human flourishing depends on our ability to move fluidly between striving for significance and yielding to forces greater than ourselves.Through vivid examples drawn from everyday life, art, love, parenting, politics, extremism, ritual, and belief systems, the authors show how modern societies have come to privilege Bigness while neglecting the human need for Smallness.They explore how imbalance between these states fuels burnout, polarization, addiction, anxiety, depression, and radicalization, while their healthy alternation underlies creativity, in