This Is How You Love Her: A Journey to Radical Self-Love

A fiercely candid, funny, and sometimes heartbreaking blend of memoir and self-help on vulnerability, identity, and reclaiming your lifeWhat if you didn't need Bali to find yourself?For 14 years, Traci Saulsberry led communications at NBC, becoming one of the youngest Black executives at the company.She had everything a modern woman is told to want-the house, her son, the high-powered job.But when her carefully constructed life collapsed, Saulsberry was confronted with a question she'd been avoiding for years: Who was she, really?Here I was, caught on my heels, with no backup lover to pick up the slack.Naturally, because I am a product of an adolescence spent binging rom-coms filled with sweeping tales, I wanted to run away and leave it all behind.I romanticized that there must be a flight to the farthest island on the edge of the world where I could just start over again.My archnemesis, reality, quickly snapped me out of that daydream.I wasn't going anywhere. I felt trapped. This Is H