Your Own Will Leave You: My Mother's Dementia

"Memory's barriers are without barriers," writes Manash Firaq Bhattacharjee in the opening of his touching and thoughtful memoir, Your Own Will Leave You.Bhattacharjee eloquently reflects on family, care, and memory as he chronicles his experiences with his elderly mother who suffers from dementia.Working from his journal, Bhattacharjee ruminates on the ways we understand dementia and memory as well as end-of-life issues.He is not only a loving son, but also an Indian with a universal sensibility who turns to ancient and contemporary thinkers that inform his perspective. Bhattacharjee focuses on the last months of his mother's life and her changing demeanor-her stubbornness, humor, and vulnerability.He traces her interactions with family members, neighbors, and caregivers, while also addressing burden-of-care issues.Recounting his moments of grief and guilt with candor, Bhattacharjee also re-evaluates how Western culture prejudices popular perceptions of mental illness. Lyrical, penetr